14TH FEB SO?
Wednesday 15 February 2006
First of all, welcome to my new place.
I finally have a bit of my writing mojo back and got sick of Tilesey begging me to blog again. My layout is being wonderfully design by the hunky Tilesey and I lovingly created my banner and colour theme.
Ok so enough about the blog.
I have made an observation. Why is it that just as you either love marmite or hate it, Valentines Day is either great or the biggest suck fest since Keira Knightly in Pride and Prejudice?
I mean come on people - it's just another day. So what if it is commercialised? Who gives a toss if other guys feel they have to do something?
Now I'm part of a wonderful couple. I love Tilesey more than I could ever possibly put into words but we didn't do anything amazing yesterday. We were just us. He was as sweet and silly as normal and I thought he was just as gorgeous and wanted him like every other day in the year.
I will totally admit that in the past I felt very strongly about Valentines Day and would be upset if amazing things didn't happen but I was trying to compensate for the little bit of emptiness I felt.
So my advice is.... let it go. If you think Val day is the best thing since speed 5 on your rampant rabbit then that's great - go ahead and buy your sweetheart a fluffy I love you teddy and if you think that V-day resembles the little demonised girl from The Exorcist who masturbates with a crucifix screaming 'Fuck me fuck me' then marvellous. Spend the day bemoaning all things wuvvy duvvy.
But for me? I'll spend it like I do any other day (except my birthday which is quite possibly the most amazing day of the year until I hit 30 in 9 years), I'll hang out with my boy in the evening and we'll talk, laugh and act like silly buggers.
COMMENTS
Eek this comment bit of coding needs sorting. Slap tris till its done!
Nice digs though dear. And i agree on the Vals day thing. People need to get over themselves, start thinking of others (and possible not their wallets) and spread a little love in the air if wanted.
Posted by: Southern Bird at February 16, 2006 02:49 AMMy gosh! Yes it does need sorting1 Blooming designers doing half arsed jobs.
Eh.
Posted by: Celeste at February 16, 2006 04:40 AMI blame people publishing before it is finished...
Posted by: Tilesey at February 16, 2006 04:51 AMI blame the designers who give it the all clear when asked if it should be published!!!
Posted by: Celeste at February 16, 2006 04:53 AMHey, you knew I was drunk and thus everything I said was bollocks (aside from the I love you part)
Posted by: Tilesey at February 16, 2006 11:37 AM*peeps in*
hello
I'm not looking at blogs at all, honest
nice new pad - good luck with it, missy!
;o)
Posted by: not anxious at all at February 16, 2006 12:01 PMNice to see you back Celeste.
Posted by: bedshaped at February 17, 2006 05:28 PM*puts on her best posh voice* Why darling, you look utterly fabulous!
Lovely to have you back honey. I hope you are super spiffy and well...and of course, give penelope my love ;)
Posted by: silk at February 18, 2006 08:17 AM
sound advice from a sound woman. nice new place!
Posted by: amelie at February 16, 2006 01:27 AM